The spiritual counselor will find it helpful to gain a
brief overview of spirituality and religion around the world. We live in
a multicultural world, and the counselor must be knowledgeable about
different world traditions. We will begin by examining some of the
universal qualities that can be extracted from the major world religions
and the perennial philosophies.
One of the more interesting differences is the
perception of God or the Divine. Different religions see God
differently. From a Western perspective (Hebrew, Christian, and
Islamic), God is a personal figure. By personal, we mean that God is
anthropomorphized and spoken of as if He (note the masculine pronoun)
were a separate being, apart from ourselves. This is a dualistic view,
meaning that God and humans are separate. Individuals seek a
relationship with this personalized Divine figure. When the individual
is cut off from that relationship, it results in existential alienation
or emptiness (Fukuyama and Sevig, 2000):
Eastern traditions, by contrast, see God as an
Impersonal Divine that is non-dual in nature, meaning that there is no
separation of self from the Divine. The emphasis is on consciousness or
an experience of oneness with the Divine and all beings. Both East and
West do recognize God as immanent (personal and present) and
transcendent (impersonal and beyond understanding.) What differentiates
them is the emphasis. The Western view focuses on immanence, and the
Eastern view focuses on transcendence. Hinduism values both equally.
Welwood (2000) merges Western and Eastern psychology to
give us a new vision of wholeness. He believes that we need both paths
to achieve this state. While the East focuses on the suprapersonal or
Divine aspects, the West focuses on personal or earthly aspects as well
as interpersonal or relationship aspects. Taken as a whole, they address
the whole person. This is the perfect blending for the work of the
spiritual counselor. Welwood advises meditation for the suprapersonal
level, psychological work for the personal, and relationship practice
for the interpersonal, much as was discussed in our section on healing.
The Spiritual Journey
The spiritual journey in all traditions is one that
moves the individual toward growth, awakening, or expanding
consciousness. Clienbell’s (as reported by Fukuyama and Sevig, 2000)
pastoral perspective postulates that spiritual growth aims at enhancing
our hopes, meanings, values, inner freedom, faith systems, peak
experiences, and relationship with God. Clinebell suggests seven areas
of spiritual needs, which include the need for:
- A viable philosophy of life
- Creative values
- Relationship with a loving God
- Development of our Higher Self
- A sense of trust that we belong in the universe
- Renewing moments of transcendence
- A caring community that nurtures spiritual growth.
These are the areas that the spiritual counselor will
address with the client, and they will look different depending on the
different level of development as well as the different culture and
background of the client.
Spiritual Practice
Walsh (1999) provides us with an overview of spiritual
practice that has been gleaned from the perennial wisdom of all cultures
and religions. He says that the ultimate aim of any practice is to
awaken to our true self and our relationship to the sacred. Both the
spiritual counselor and the client need to invest in spiritual practice
in order to participate in the transformation of awareness. Walsh says
that four observations are at the heart of the perennial philosophy:
- There are two realms of reality – the everyday and the subtle
realm of consciousness or spirit.
- Human beings partake of both realms – we are physical and
spiritual beings. We live in a body, but we also inhabit a place of
transcendent awareness.
- Human beings can recognize their Divine spark and the sacred
ground that is its source – we can directly experience and test the
validity of the transcendent by engaging in spiritual practice.
- Realizing our spiritual nature is the highest goal and greatest
good of human existence – no other goal is as rewarding or
beneficial.
Based on this perennial philosophy, it would appear that
transformation is our birthright. We come into this world to seek and
find our true self and place in the universe. All great religions offer
perennial practices that are designed to help us reach this goal. Walsh
(1999) has defined seven essential practices that offer a method for
achieving this awareness and personal transformation:
- Transform your motivation – reduce craving and find your Soul’s
desire. The secret of happiness is to let go of grasping and
relinquish attachments. We must seek that which truly brings us
happiness and fulfillment.
- Cultivate emotional wisdom – heal your heart and learn to love.
Release painful emotions and foster helpful attitudes such as
gratitude and generosity. Cultivate love and compassion.
- Live ethically – feel good by doing good. Find the benefits of
virtuous living, and live the ethical life. It brings about
increasing inner peace, trust, honesty, openness, and joy.
- Concentrate and calm your mind – meditate, concentrate, and
still the mind.
- Awaken your spiritual vision – see clearly and recognize the
sacred in all things.
- Cultivate spiritual intelligence – develop wisdom and understand
life. It opens us to mystical experiences.
- Express spirit in action – embrace generosity and the joy of
service. It is the supreme practice, and it awakens us to spiritual
vision.
Walsh (1999) also provides exercises to help the
individual attain these goals. Many of the exercises and prayers in this
thesis also aim at helping the individual meet these spiritual goals.
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